When i say being a kept man i don’t mean in the terms of something similar to a gigolo i talking from a view of being a man with out options or dependent on a woman for your well being where you are actually living off her using her car not basically having your own shit. Ive been in this situation before it started off cool then all hell broke lose see instead of it being a healthy relationships it eventually turns on to a mother son relationship you guys are clashing because she is trying to run you give you orders in your mind you a grown ass man you not her son and she thinking well i do this i do that if you dont like it you can get out my house ect.
Being a kept man is no position to be in. You want to have your own when you got your own , paper, car, and home a woman has to get with it or get lost. If you have your own she is willing to listen to you if you staying with her using her car, asking for $20 dollars all the time, and living with her basically she is laughing at you because she is supporting you. Some cats think they pimping when they are in a situation like this when they are not the woman is in control she can tell you to get ghost at anytime what can you do see she has that power and she knows it. You have some women who look for men who dont have their shit right because that man is not a threat compared to a man who has his shit together because he can keep it moving on her without a blink of a eye you would be surprised there are women intimated by men who are stable so they settle for the cat who dont have his shit together I dont care what no woman says after a while she is going to want more and the dick gets old . If you want to look at it from a pimping perspective yes they get money out of a woman but they are also in control of they circumstances so you can not call your self pimping if you no in control of your circumstances or conditions.
So if you are in this position get your shit in order and get your own.When you have your own you will have more options meaning women and a peace of mind. I will go into why it is good to have your tools in order when you are dealing with a woman.